Bullying remains a very emotive issue. I have a few friends who openly admit that they were bullies at school, and that they didn't mean any real harm, and were "just teasing". Comments that people overreact, and that the victims often bring it on themselves are also made. It is a reality that the bullied person's reaction can lead to further bullying, or their lack of reaction can move the bullies to a new target. These former self styled bullies have grown up into nice people who are really fun to be with. Who would have thought? But the people I know who were bullied have not grown up nearly as undamaged. In fact, it is my unscientific opinion, that bullies grow up to be happier and more successful than the bullied, because their sense of self is more entitled. (Other than in the entertainment industry, where almost all of them claim that they were misfits and excluded from everything.....) Moving from the classroom to the boa...
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